New frontiers of the couple that does not break out

 

Recently we came across an American movie, posted on the net by a major Journalistic Agency, concerning the couple's life nowadays (in this specific case American life), where it was said that more and more often the lack of dialogue between spouses (or unmarried) creates situations, conditions of pain or discomfort that can lead inevitably to separation if not divorce directly. Added to this was a movie, this time published by a country in Northern Europe, where they were taught to pupils in secondary schools, the mechanism and action of intercourse.

  We thought all three together on the real condition of the couple today, the era of super technology, historical period in which even the absurd can become real, coming to experience (for now!) Specific robots used to meet every preference of sexual order. One of us has put forward an interesting hypothesis about, indicating as a possible remedy for a good part of the problem, the application of theories of yoga and transcendental meditation.

  Following this line, we found that in many countries of the world, there are specialized centers  for couples therapy, along the lines of the method of Masters & Johnson, when clinics of sex entered in operation. In particular, in Italy there is a specific center where you can practice the knowledge of the body by spiritual way as well by tactile, with the touch of the other's body, with the ultimate goal of being able to access the sexual pleasure of couples through bodily knowledge tactile guided.

  It is in fact noted, observing many statistics of research institutes, or reading interviews with prominent scientists, that the lack of dialogue in the couple and the lack of knowledge of own self, of the own body and sexual function, create the basis to the betrayal of one of two partners, a neurotic adaptation to a partner almost unknown, and to a concrete dissatisfaction of both, which logically leads to wear of rapport and then to the separation.

  One of these specialists, Maria Rosa Greco, reached by telephone, has in fact confirmed that in the large percentage of marital breakdown, the factor conversation and knowledge of their own sexuality, is of primary importance. We documented about, and we have verified that there are dozens of centers similar to those indicated by the scholar contacted, especially in India, Spain, Argentina, and a growing number in the United States. The protocol of the scholar will be discussed soon at an international conference in Hawaii, during which she will explain in detail his method of treatment, and will be presented her therapeutic  theorem  to get command of own sexuality individually.

  Beyond any scientific criterion, however, we really need to deal with the daily reality, because although no one wants to take into account the technology and the developmental period in which we find ourselves, broad freedom of expression and action, are not going to step with the cultural evolution of the planet, where illiteracy still rampant, and violence against women and children has reached unbearable limits in parallel with the sex -a turn born and lived as a download-barrel, which became after like market of human merchandise. Perhaps the success of the book and the film "50 shades of gray" gave a signal to many, making it clear that sexuality does not mean do anything you want, including extreme sex. The couple does not have to break out, must evolve by being together and being understood by knowing each other:  only in this way perversion and psychological illnesses of sexual nature can be said to be defeated, and weddings (provided that still exist) saved.

Mikhail Lermontov, for INC News-Schiedam, 19/08/2015 (copyright©INCNews)